Steps to planning a First Birthday party? Step one... Don't. Jk. I know I know, they aren't even going to remember it, but the way I see it; it's the only party where the parents can do all the decision making. The food, the theme, and the location will now most likely be determined by Kamille. She is too young to be into Paw Patrol, princesses or Power Rangers, too young to want it at the bowling alley or a pizza joint and too young to only want ice cream as a food option.